/b/ - Random

Man, I am leaving my home, fuck it

Everyone calls me for errands as if I'm vella (which I am actually)

Helping 1-2 times is ok, what is this chamarpana that you call me anytime and say chal thoda kaam se aate hain

Now, there's a Chinmaya mission, and the owner of it's calling me every other day to help her visit schools and obtain permission to conduct a Bhagwat Geeta adhyay shloka or similar sessions for 1-2 hours in every school and college. The grand event is next year in January. Taking count of every school and college that we've, where I live, will be around 40-50

And I am not doing this all for shit, I am pissed off at how people just randomly call me and ask for favour with no shame and as if I'm readily available.

She even tells me "Jaldi job lagao kabhi kabhi thoda paise dena mujhe donation mein". I've no problem with this, but mera kuch ho jaye tab na

bhenchod I'm not doing anything for myself but I'm doing the work of everyone and this shit is making me hate myself and world even more

Somewhere, I'm the cause of all these. I don't know how to say no. She's a senior(age), and it's difficult to say no. I'm NEET and everyone thinks that I can be walked over

>>153196(OP)

>I'm NEET and everyone thinks that I can be walked over

I'm NEET as well but I barely go outside my house and have no such interactions with my neighbors. If any relative even comes to my house they would not know I exist.

>>153196(OP)

You're delusional if you think leaving your home is going to fix this. If you don't know how to say no, people can sense that within 10 seconds of talking to you.

There will always be someone ready to take advantage of you regardless of where you are.

Grow a spine, either stand your ground or ask them for equal favors in return to what you do. Negotiating your own value from others is an essential skill to have.

>>153209

>I barely go outside my house and have no such interactions with my neighbors.

This is me

and they taunt me saying "Kya hi karta hai sara din to ghar mein baithe rehta hai chal bahar chal thoda ghuma kar" - Yeah faggot I know why you're calling me

They say once you get a high-end job, everyone's behaviour towards you changes. I hope this is true

Someone posted a quote saying, "When power gets more respect than peace, looking strong becomes your best choice to survive."

This shit hit me like brick

>>153212

>So you'll live on the streets?

Going to ask baap for money

I'll do any job now I can't tolerate this NEET life

>>153215

>Grow a spine, either stand your ground or ask them for equal favors in return to what you do. Negotiating your own value from others is an essential skill to have.

How does one do this?